Một nhạc cụ có thể thực sự phục vụ không? Không cây sáo nào có thể tự chơi nhạc. Nó không thể cung cấp thứ gì ngoại trừ sự khả dụng của nó, đó là khả năng tiếp nhận của nó, để được sử dụng cho mục đích chơi nhạc. Sự khả dụng mang nhiều hình thức khác nhau. Nó không có nghĩa là chúng ta không làm gì mà chỉ chờ guru đích thân đến chỉ dẫn cho chúng ta. Thay vì thế, nó có nghĩa là chúng ta cởi mở, rỗng rang và tiếp nhận nguồn cảm hứng tinh tế đến từ trái tim. Đây là chỉ dẫn dành cho chúng ta, đôi khi nó có thể đến thông qua chính cá nhân guru. Đôi khi, gợi ý và dấu hiệu xuất hiện xung quanh chúng ta. Hầu hết, chúng nổi lên từ bên trong. Trong mọi trường hợp, chính trái tim nhận ra dấu ấn của Master trong các tín hiệu, sự gợi ý và cảm hứng này, cho dù chúng có đến từ bên trong hay không. Công việc duy nhất của chúng ta là tạo ra trạng thái rỗng rang bên trong. Sau đó, ngài có sử dụng chúng ta hay không là việc của ngài. Ngài có mang chúng ta đi xa hơn hay không là việc của ngài. Đối với trái tim tôi, mục tiêu cao nhất là Master hạnh phúc với tôi. Đó là mục tiêu của tất cả mọi thứ.
Dear friends,
When we read the writings of Pujya Babuji Maharaj, we see that in so many instances, he entreats us to fix our goal from the very outset of our journey. He repeats this sentiment again and again in various ways. Nevertheless, we find that if in the heart there is a desire for any stage, including the highest one, the very presence of this desire will deviate us.
In fact, it will prevent us from attaining anything at all. In the spiritual field, attainment is directly proportionate to the dissolution of the “I.” When there is craving for any spiritual stage or condition, it is the “I” that is behind that craving, and it is the presence of that very same “I” that bars our entry into the stage that we crave. Therefore, any goal automatically becomes the bar to its own achievement, whether it is the highest goal, or an intermediary one. This is the primary paradox of spiritual life, which must be solved in order for us to move on.
Let us begin by
examining Babuji’s own approach to life. Did he have a goal? He writes
that as
a young boy, he
would often observe his mother performing traditional puja. Around
the age of six or seven, he asked her to teach it to him. She started adorning
his forehead with tilak made from sandalwood paste, and he would feel happy
that he had done his puja for the day. A few years later, he started feeling a
thirst for truth, which led him to the Bhagavad Gita. Eventually, the family
priest advised him to recite “Rama Rama,” which he did religiously for some
time, but that did not satisfy his heart. One fine day, his thirst for truth
took him to Lalaji Maharaj. At the very first glance, Babuji was captivated. He
felt that he was at home.
Babuji never desired
to be fulfilled by his Master in any way. He never sought spiritual advancement,
nor did he wish for the love and affection of his guru, though he loved Lalaji
with all his heart. Babuji’s life was defined by one thing and one thing alone:
total and single-pointed dedication to his Master. His only focus was Lalaji,
at whose feet he exemplified the state of absolute surrender, resulting in
unfathomable progress without any precedent.
Often it is
misunderstood that merger is the highest possible attainment, but Babuji’s life
shows us otherwise. We see that there are attainments beyond merger, such as
perfect identicality with one’s guru, and we also see that it is possible to go
still further. No words can describe the states that come after total
identicality.
However, Babuji never
craved the divine gifts that he received so plentifully. Though he never craved
these benedictions, his reverence for Lalaji was so total that he completely
mastered every condition and stage that Lalaji bestowed upon him. He valued his
guru’s efforts to such an extent that he could not allow them to go to waste.
Therefore, he worked extremely hard upon himself.
Did Lalaji ever
request or instruct Babuji to adopt such an approach of dedication and
surrender? Babuji’s attitude toward his guru arose naturally from his own
heart. Later, as a Master himself, Babuji’s nature remained such that he could
not request personal devotion, dedication, or surrender from anybody.
Unfortunately, his abhyasis would often miss the true path as a result, but
Babuji could not guide them in this respect. His hands were tied due to his
impeccable etiquette and utter humility, which did not allow him to be direct
on this point. Rather, he tended to define the goal using abstract and indirect
terminology such as “the Centre,” “realisation,” or “complete oneness with
God.”
In one of his letters
to an abhyasi, Babuji wrote about the importance of constant remembrance, how
an abhyasi is supposed to remain in touch with his Master mentally, constantly.
Perhaps because he was very shy, Babuji told the abhyasi, “think that I’m
remembering you all the time.” Though psychologically it has a different spin,
it serves the same purpose. He could never say anything like, “Take me as your
goal.” How could he, when in his own heart, he did not even feel that he
possessed existence? However, the wording of the Mission prayer is quite clear:
Master, Thou art the
real goal of human life. We are yet but slaves of wishes, putting bar to our
advancement.
Thou art the only God
and power to bring us up to that stage.
These lines did not
originate with Babuji, but were a dictation he received from Swami Vivekananda,
which he transcribed and brought out under higher orders. Sometimes, people
would ask Babuji who this Master is, who is mentioned in the prayer. Babuji’s
prompt response was, “It is God who is the true Master.” But if the prayer is
addressed to God, then why repeat the sentence, “Thou are the only God and
power to bring us up to that stage”? This argument is worth pondering, and each
one has to draw their own conclusion.
The prayer’s first
line does not indicate what it means to take the Master as one’s goal. What can
we conclude from this idea? Does it mean that we should try to merge with him?
Should we strive to become identical with him? Such approaches would be a
misunderstanding of the prayer’s meaning, and would again send us off-track. To
seek merger or identicality is too demanding a request.
Gifting such a state
is the Master’s business, rather than the disciple’s. In that case, how could
it ever be my goal? To nurture such an idea would only lead to a situation
where I would attempt to manipulate my guru’s sentiments in my favour— a true
act of self-sabotage.
Furthermore, my desire
for the state of merger would prevent my ever attaining it, as it would only
strengthen the “I-ness” at the base of this desire. At the same time, we see
that Babuji strongly recommended the cultivation of intense craving and longing
for the goal. What kind of craving is he speaking about? There are different
levels of craving. Craving of the lowest type will not bring us anywhere we
want to go, no matter how intense it may be. For instance, the kind of craving
that arises out of missing your beloved is quite different than a situation in
which you merely crave gifts from your beloved. Just imagine if your beloved
was focused on trying to get something out of you all the time!
The finer types of
longing do not admit any craving for the physical presence of the Master. In a
letter to one of his associates, Babuji writes, “Really speaking, the frame of
the Master is not God, but behind is Divinity. So I submitted to that Divinity
and not to the physical being.” But then he goes on to say, “If you invite into
your view the whole frame of the Master, Divinity will lag behind.” Here,
Babuji is not recommending that we seek the physical darshan of the Master, nor
was that ever his own approach. Darshan only occurs at an inner level, and meditativeness
is the only state in which a meeting with the Master can ever occur.
In this spirit, Babuji
adopted his own method of meditation, which Lalaji never prescribed to him (but
which he silently admired). He automatically commenced meditation upon Lalaji’s
physical frame, with the idea that it was connected to the Ultimate. Babuji
would later say that “it was for me alone.” Again, his inclination was not to
impose himself upon his abhyasis in any way. It was not in his nature to insert
himself personally into anyone’s life. Therefore, he could not be direct when
it came to such matters. It would also have been useless for him to be direct,
because unless a disciple can see the path for themselves, such guidance will
likely be met with resistance, whereas if the disciple can see that truth,
there is no need to say it. The most sacred knowledge is always like this. It
must come from within, naturally. As the saying goes, no one can teach a monkey
to climb. Only abhyas, or practice, can lead us to the correct approach in a
natural way, without creating resistance. It does not create resistance because
it comes from within us, rather than from any external source. Often, it does
not even give us any knowledge with which we can disagree. Rather, it simply
creates the right bhava, or attitude, in us. This happens due to our true
akhlaq, or character, being progressively brought to light, which our attitude
then reflects.
The methods given
to us
by Babuji—meditation, cleaning,
and prayer—are unique ones. Though
the whole world
talks about meditation, almost all methods fall short of creating a true
state of meditation. Some may derive satisfaction from meditating for hours
together, days together, and months together. They may pride themselves on how
long they can sit, how long they can fast, or how long they can remain in
seclusion. However, the truly special meditative states, which are so
indescribable, are beyond their access.
By receiving yogic
transmission again and again, we are enabled to go into these states almost
immediately. This is Babuji’s gift to the world, of which we want to make
people aware.
In the state of
meditation, we become deeply withdrawn and centred within. We become so focused
within ourselves that the resulting absorbency gets reflected in our day-to-day
activities, provided we remain careful in maintaining this centeredness.
Another term for this constant centeredness is “constant remembrance”—
especially when there is gratitude to the one who gifted such a state of
absorbency. In this gratitude, we simply melt away.
Now commences our
resonance with the great Master. Meditation alone cannot create this. Without
cleaning, the impressions and desires would remain in the heart and draw our
focus outward, becoming an impenetrable membrane that would prevent us from
diving within.
Most of
us understand cleaning
as a practice
that removes samskaras, or impressions, but what is the
result of this removal of samskaras? We are gifted with vacuity, arising out of
the removal of samskaras, and start expressing lighter and lighter states as we
design our new personality with a veil of nothingness. This newer state is the
epitome of “more and more of less and less.” The term “nothingness” can be
better understood when we split it into two parts: no- thingness. There is no
desire left for any thing. No thing can draw you out of your centred,
meditative state. Of course, this will not cause us to abandon worthwhile
worldly activities, which we will conduct in a better way.
Just as meditation
without cleaning is insufficient, cleaning without meditation will have its own
consequences. Without the absorbency created by meditation, the inner vacuum
resulting from cleaning would only attract more and more things, meaning
impressions which become seeds for future desires. Vacuity can only remain
beneficial as long as absorbency is on the personality who is wearing the
simple veil of no-thingness; on such a Master who has no more selfish
intentions to fulfil at a personal level.
The culmination of
this vacuity, or state of nothingness, is the total absence of ‘I,’ where you
no longer exist for your own sake. That is saranagati. The closest thing to
such a beautiful state of saranagati is surrender. To a beginner in the field
of spirituality, the term surrender often causes anxiety, since we associate it
with defeat. Saranagati is not defeat. The feeling that I am under the
protection of my very dear mother brings only joy. Such is the condition a
bhakta enjoys upon reaching the state of saranagati.
Babuji proclaimed, “To
die before you die is the way to freedom.” It is nothing to fear. You have not
lost anything. In fact, you have received the greatest blessing for a bhakta,
which is the guru’s own heart, beyond which there is nothing worth having. Now,
both guru and disciple remain in remembrance of one other. The disciple has
taken saranagati at the feet of the guru. At the same time, the guru has taken
saranagati at the feet of his disciple. It is mutual.
Saranagati must be
true. It must be your akhlaq—your real character, your very essence. If it is
artificial, then you may find the Master running away from you, because your
“saranagati” has ulterior motives. Whether you are chasing liberation or
admittance to the central region, it may be better not to approach the guru at
all than to go with such desires, unless you are approaching him with prayers
for their removal.
Of course, the guru
does not wish to deprive us of liberation or of the central region. Rather, he
wants us to soar to even greater heights than he has managed to achieve. Yet,
all that is good comes from the purity of this relationship, which we should
maintain at the cost of any other goal.
Babuji was
often compelled by
peoples’ wishes for
attainments. With great ingenuity,
he placed a number of people in the central region, who would not have reached
there through the normal course. Sadly, the results were impermanent. They
could not remain there for long, as they were unable to resonate with the
unique subtlety of that dimension. As a result, they fell. When people who were
known to have reached the central region started slipping, they brought a bad
name to His Highness and to the path. Will Nature forgive such individuals?
During Babuji’s times, those who practiced and served unconditionally were a
rarity. In his diaries, we find instances where Lalaji remarks upon this:
18th August 1944:
Revered Lalaji: “It is
human etiquette to consider oneself as a devotee and Him as the object of
devotion. People forget this status, and treat God as an instrument to serve
their ends. This is also applicable in the case of deities and guru.”
23rd August 1944:
Revered Lalaji: “Few
are those who will be inclined to you, and will have no selfish purpose.”
To practice while
harbouring motives for material gains or spiritual progress may be acceptable
in the very beginning, but we should take pains to divest ourselves of all such
ideas at the very earliest and become true abhyasis. Abhyas simply means
practice.
It is, however,
different from sadhana, which is to practice with a specific aim in mind, such
as liberation, or any other condition or sadhya [accomplishment] or dhyey
[goal], that the sadhaka wishes to achieve. Abhyas, as opposed to sadhana, is
open-ended. In the spirit of nishkam karma [desireless action], we surrender
the results of our practice to the Master’s enlightened judgement. Therefore,
it is the state of saranagati that defines us as abhyasis. The Gita’s eternal
principle of karma thus applies in the spiritual realm as well. Without
saranagati, we are only sadhakas, and the attainment of any state or condition
becomes tenuous.
One beautiful aspect
of Sahaj Marg is that when I have nothing in my mind or heart to ask for, the
resulting vacuum automatically attracts grace. Then he descends and takes us
further. The more desireless we become, the more he helps us. Though we have
heard again and again that liberation is assured when we transcend the pancha
bhutas [five elements] and cross the pind pradesh, liberation is not simply a
matter of crossing those five chakras. It is, rather, a matter of becoming
vacuumized at each of those chakras. As the chakras become more and more
refined through cleaning and through a proper lifestyle, egolessness and
contentment must prevail—even while we are on the very first chakra. Can we
afford to wait until we reach the ninth or tenth chakra before starting to
sublimate our egofulness? That would be like going to a gym and suddenly
attempting to lift 100 kilos when you’ve never lifted a weight before in your
life. We need to build up incrementally, as much as possible each time. This
means that we must start creating this vacuity from our very first day as
abhyasis. Egolessness is what truly defines a good condition, no matter what
stage of your yatra you are on. A good condition is that in which you are
simply receptive and not imposing yourself in any way. It is to be a mere
witness, in which we allow His will to take form without any interference from
our side.
There is a beautiful
story concerning Radhaji and Lord Krishna. Radha is jealous of Lord Krishna’s
flute, which he keeps at his lips. One day she tries to break the flute. Lord
Krishna says, “Why don’t you have a look inside this flute and tell me what
there is to be jealous about?” Radha looks inside and says, “There is no-thing
in this flute!” The Lord smiles and tells her that it is for this very
reason—the emptiness in this flute—that the melodious music flows. Had there
been even a hair inside, it would have twisted the music. Its melody would have
been destroyed.
If we become as empty
as Lord Krishna’s flute, imagine how melodious our lives will become. Total
emptiness is the prerequisite of service and devotion. The flute does not
decide the music. It cannot complain that it would rather play a different
raga. It is the master who decides the music. It is he that decides which kind
of service is required from his instrument.
Can an instrument ever
really serve? No flute can play itself. It can offer nothing apart from its
availability, which is its receptivity to being played. This availability takes
various forms. It does not mean that we do nothing and only wait for the guru
to personally come and instruct us. Instead, it means that we remain open,
empty, and receptive to the subtle inspirations that descend into our hearts.
These are our instructions, which may occasionally come via the guru,
personally. At other times, hints and signs appear around us. Mostly, they
emerge from within. In all cases, it is the heart that recognizes the Master’s
signature in these signs, hints, and inspirations, whether they come from
within or without. Our only job is to create a state of nothingness within
ourselves. After that, whether he utilizes us or not is his business. Whether
he carries us further or not is his business. To my heart, the highest goal is
for the Master to be happy with me. That is the end of everything.
The Master does not
need to know your name, your face, or even your condition in order to be happy
with you. If he did, then this system would not be an efficient one. You may
travel from Manhattan to Brooklyn to give sittings one day, and automatically,
his grace and transmission start to descend. He may not consciously know that
you are doing good work in that moment. The thought of you may not cross his
mind. Yet, he is happy with you and the change in your condition is the proof
of it. Anonymity does not only imply that we do not show off to our peers. To a
greater extent, it means that we have no need to show off to Master. We have no
wish to impress him. To be contented with anonymity is a sign of faith which
comes when we have nothing to prove for the sake of gaining his approbation or
reward.
The paradox of the
goal is both highlighted and resolved in our Mission prayer, depending on our
understanding of and attitude toward this prayer. The prayer contains
infinities, but one way of looking at it is that in one stroke, these first two
lines show us what our goal is, but also that it is our very wish for that goal
that puts bar to our advancement, or to the achievement of that goal:
Master, Thou art the
real goal of human life. We are yet but slaves of wishes, putting bar to our
advancement.
Now faced with a
paradox, the third line rescues us:
Thou art the only God
and power to bring us up to That stage.
What does this line
mean? Perhaps it tells us to forget about achievement, because there is only
one main player in this game.
Of what use is a goal
to a grateful heart who is not trying to achieve anything?
Accepting this in our
hearts, there remains only gratitude.
In summary, when we
join this system of meditation, at times accidentally or we start with
different aims, or sometimes no aim at all. As we meditate more and more, we
start falling in love with the various states that we come across. We start
enjoying them and appreciating them and begin craving for higher states. After
some point, this also bids farewell. Most of us start moving in the higher
realms without conscious awareness, oblivious to what is happening. Ultimately,
like a water drop falling in the ocean, where there is no drop left to claim “I
have become the ocean,” an abhyasi finally arrives Home—a home without any
walls. The paradox is transcended.
When we describe a
water drop falling in the ocean, we are able to provide an explanation of
merger, but the stages lying ahead related to identicality are very difficult
to convey. No seeker can ably describe such a state of identicality; that
defies logic. Only the guru will have to say such a thing. On 22nd July, 1944,
Revered Lalaji dictated, “If Ram Chandra's nerves and veins were to be opened
up, and the one who performs the operation has eyes endowed with vision, he
will find my whole power manifest in him.” Let us offer our prayer to the Great
Master that we may soon arrive at such a stage in our lives.
With love and respect,
Kamlesh Patel
Kanha Shantivanam, 30
April 2019
On the occasion of
120th birth anniversary of Pujya Shri
Ram Chandraji of Shahjahanpur.